My husband and I have been together for 9 years with 4 kids between 2 and 12. He works out of town and comes home on the weekends when possible. Last week I was going through our phone bill as I wanted to add a line for my 12 year old. I checked the call log from his phone and noticed an unknown number with multiply incoming and outgoing calls throughout all hours of the day. My gut feeling knew something was wrong as these calls were being made while he was working, he’s not allowed to use his phone while on the job, and late at night when he was supposedly already “asleep”. I proceeded to call the number and my heart sank when I heard another woman’s voice on the other end. I asked her if she knew MY HUSBAND and he first words were omg are you kidding me. I didn’t know he was still with you. He practically lives at my house, we go out all the time, etc etc etc. She then told me that had she know she wouldn’t have talked to him at all and assured me not to worry that she was done.
What does Amber do next ….she goes crying to my husband about everything meanwhile I’m trying to get ahold of him to see what the hell is going on. He’s not responding to me at all but I keep on checking the call log on our service and see that they are communicating. I finally speak to him when he gets out and his words are I’m done. We’re over. He won’t even speak to me at all. This happened on a Friday afternoon. On Saturday I packed up the kids and drove out to see him which is 6 hours away. When he found out he told me if you come I’m going to hate you. It was different once I got there but he wouldn’t look me in the eyes or tell me anything. He got defensive because I had blocked Amber’s number from contacting him. At the same time I keep on calling her and telling her to back off my husband.
Yes he lied to her but she knew now what the situation was. You would thinks that her as a mother herself would now how this would affect our children but being the whore that she is she could care less. She is still pursuing my married husband and will not leave him alone.
