So I decided that I was going to post my experience too. My husband was my best friend. He was my everything, and that was my first mistake.

I was his princess and he treated me with much respect in the beginning. We never argued and he never raised his voice to me. I felt so protected and loved then things changed. He started avoiding me, he started talking down to me and disrespecting me. Then he was blasted on blast915, there they were, Their picture staring me in the face. All hugged up and happy, it was devastating. She went to jail on a meth charge and got sentenced to TDC, but was released a few short months later. HE was in jail at the time of her release and he took me off his visitation list and added her. Yet, he called me proclaiming his love saying she was just going to get him out and he would come home to me. I refused to get him out this time. When I realized the deletion from his visitation list was not an error I changed my phone number. Sure enough, two days later on the 13th of March I was forwarded a picture from her Facebook all hugged up with my husband. She got him out. Guess what was over his eyebrow now, her name. Lord he lost his mind. That same day I received my last jail talk letter. I love you he says, I want our marriage to work he says, losing you I don’t want to happen, he says.

Im sure she is still using meth, I mean look at her. Mind you, my husband is no angel, he had cheated already but this trick takes the cake. She was in my house, she was in my car. HE took my car and for about 3 months they lived in it. No shame this trick has. She knew he was married. Don’t get me wrong he was wrong too, but as a woman we have those unspoken thing called boundaries, or we should anyway.

Now they are on Facebook claiming they are married, and now she’s having a baby supposedly, blah blah blah, well guess what, he is still legally my husband. I thank her for being so open with their love, saves me the alimony. Screenshots are amazing.

All I can say is after two years I still hurt, but I’m getting better. I know that there is a thing called Karma and I also know how she got him she will lose him.

He will always be the love of my life, but at the end of the day I deserve so much better. I’m a good woman and I know that one day the right man will find me and I will be happy. I don’t have to share a man, I won’t share a man. I wish them the best of luck. All this stress caused me to become ill, so I have to let it go and give it to God.

Ladies I know how hard it is to forgive but we have too. They keep power if we don’t. The best revenge on a cheating spouse is to live happy……..I’m in a better place now, I have a wonderful family, who loves me and stands by me. I no longer cringe when I hear sirens or there is a knock on the door. I sleep well at night now and all I can say to her is, Good luck honey, he’s all yours, or is he? (eyes rolling, laughing).