For almost two years this woman Linda Amaya has been having contact with my now soon to be ex-husband. Husband and I have been together for close to 14 years and have three children. One who is special needs and needs round the clock care. Recently we decided to work at our marriage. Like any relationship we had our issues. Things seemed to be going good. We were getting along better. We had become a bit more intimate. The kids were happy since he was once again in a good mood. Then he decided to tell me that it wasn’t working for him. I had agreed because I could feel that he was distant once again. That something just wasn’t right. He had admitted to sexting with someone. Said it tore him up with guilt to do it. Then when we decided to be okay with the split, he decided to actually defend her. Saying she was a good person. Ha! Later I went through phone records online because he had canceled the bills from coming to the house and had us go paperless years ago. Well… 16 months worth of phone records show that he has been talking to this woman. How do I know it’s her? Google. Typed in the phone number, it gave me a first name and first initial for the last name. Out of curiosity we checked his facebook friends list… ONE person popped up and it was her. Even better… the mutual friend that I have is my neighbor!!!!!! Even on the days of our children’s birthdays he would text her or call her saying it was work calling and that he had to go. I bet he sure as hell had to go. Calls and texts from 0530 to 1900. Everyday they texted and spoke. Now, he SHOULD be home everyday at 1430. For the past three years he has been coming home later and later. Sometimes as late as 2000. I suggested to go see the Dr. because he has health issues that make him tired. He never did go. Everyday while he was home on the couch with the kids he was texting the other woman. While I would be in the kitchen trying to make conversation with him. Of course he was soooooo guilt ridden for sexting that it continued for those 16 months. I did everything he wanted me to. Whether I liked it or not just to keep him happy. For almost 10 years I stayed home to take care of our special child. In that time he never gave me money to have for myself. Money was always being ‘lent’ out to co workers. As of late money was always being taken out of our account, yet he always asked me if I had cash. How am I going to have cash if he never gave me money for anything but to take care of his stuff and bills? So now he is out of the house. Has more than likely moved in with her. He closed our joint bank account and asked me how much money I need to pay the bills. That are all under his name. So I can’t cancel what I don’t need to save money. On top of that she has two kids. Younger than mine. For all I know those are his too. So instead of taking care of the children he decided to make with me he is going to take care of hers. He left me with no money, a run down house that he never finished fixing. Everything is half a$$ed done. Yet, he is now living in a nice clean painted house while my children still have to work with a house that has never been turned into a home. Yet this woman calls herself a Christian. Has bible quotes all over her facebook page. Has even had the audacity to come up to us to say hi when we were out having dinner with the kids. No shame at all whatsoever.
