My Ex and I had plenty of our own issues to begin with. Lisa started hanging out with us. After some time had passed she ended up telling me how attracted she was to him. At the time supposedly she was under the impression we weren’t really together. Funny how a grown woman in her 30s could truly believe a couple is not a couple when they live together and even share a bed together. I called her to let her know that we are together and he isn’t available to date her. Instead of listening to me, she called him and believed every lie he told her. He lied because she made a scene at work. Yes, she even worked with him. Can’t have less class. I even went to her work and confronted her in front of her co workers. Still she didn’t back off.
How desperate you have to be to feel entitled to another woman’s man. No matter how many times I tried to tell her to stay away or the truth of where he stood with her she never listened. She never stayed away. She continued to send him nude pictures of herself. Trying to continue to sleep with him behind my back. Even after we moved out of state she wouldn’t leave him alone. Convinced she had a right to stay in his life. Even though he told me he wasn’t attracted to her. He did stop sleeping with her but she still didn’t get the hint and leave out of his life completely. She doesn’t even think she did anything wrong.
Yes, we obviously had issues. But you would think woman to woman could respect one another and get out of a couple’s issues instead of adding to the problem just so you can actually get laid since obviously no one else is doing it. Maybe if she knew she said she doesn’t have a face he cares to look at often, or that she annoyed him with her neediness, or that it was like fucking a fish because she was so insecure about her weight (she had plenty) then she would finally realize she has no business fighting to be something to him.
