Where to begin .. It’s always sad when kids are involved.. I debated on making this public . But today is especially hard since it’s Father’s Day and his children are without their dad. Patrick James was always a bit unstable as far as holding a job, staying in one place for or apparently being faithful. He started driving a truck then later worked in the trucking industry in other positions, so he traveled sometimes. He used that excuse to cover up his cheating ways. He also likes to fish and drink beer and is verbally abusive .. In some ways I was glad when he was gone. It was simpler to make excuses and just say he was busy working.
Anyway looking back the signs were there but I guess I didn’t see them or maybe chose to ignore them. We were together many years and have children together. He wasn’t around a lot for them emotionally or in general. We eventually broke up and he refused to pay child support as he was supposed to do. Basically he is a deadbeat dad. He has never been around for the important moments in their lives. The babies are all grown up now and he has disowned them due to his now wife’s selfishness. A decent woman would support the relationship of children and their father and try to mend or repair it, but not Elizabeth James. She has caused more heartache and sadness and wreaked more havoc over the past several years that you can even imagine.
He has chosen her family over his own and has complete disregard for what is right in life. Hope you have a not so happy father’s day Patrick.. Or Danny .. Or Pat James.. Or whatever you are calling yourself these days.. You two are a real piece of work together!
