This is my ex-husband Romel Ruiz, we were married for 9 years when this “man”, cheated on me with some fake ugly christian. Let me first start of my saying that when we got married he had no job or future. Yes I married a loser but hey I was only 19 at the time and thought it was love. After years of
supporting him I was going to leave him if he hadn’t grown up at this point he weighed damn near 400 pounds but wanted to become a sheriff in Virginia Beach. I helped him lose weight and did all the work for him from application to getting him ready for the interview. Mind you, my friends had to be his references because all of his friends were drug dealers and losers. Ha I guess the people you hang out with are a reflection of yourself. A couple months past and he started losing weight, that’s when he started his texting and calling his ex-girlfriend from when he was 14. I’m sure she was grateful for the attention since her life was a sad, pathetic mess.
Anyways 2 years later I went to work in Kuwait with the Army and he started cheating me with with his ex, wasting the money I was making and acting like he wasn’t doing anything. He become a police officer and started cheating on me and his ex with a girl that wasn’t old enough to drink legally (oh she was married also). I came home on vacation and he left me homeless and closed our joint account. I went and got a separation from this man because I didn’t want anything to do with him. He fought and fought the divorce all the while lying to all these women. The sad thing is, these grown women fall for his BS. After months of acting like a child he signed the paperwork and I was finally free- he then called and text talking about the women he cheated with of course they were “crazy, stalkers with no ambition”……
Every time things aren’t going his way he tries to come back into my life. As a matter of fact he invites me to all these class graduations but then acts like it’s me. I’ve happily moved on with my life because once you’ve been married and were used by a loser, you know you can do better.
