Rose Gonzalez and my deployed husband started a long distance affair that began as emotional before it turned physical. She knew we had been married 7 years and neither cared. I gave them both an opportunity to end it, but neither did. About 6 months into our divorce proceedings, she dumped him because I went to his father’s funeral in New Jersey. That’s when he asked to work it out. No thanks. Rose, you can take him back.