My husband and I had only been married 7 1/2 months. I had miscarried twice during that time. I totally adored my husband, but was depressed because of losing the babies and from things my ex husband had been putting me through regarding custody of my two other children that I have sole custody of. I trusted my new husband to help me through this all, but he just used my anger and sadness as an excuse to get involved emotionally with the head security guard at his work. She was single and a woman without custody of her child. She preyed upon him and he let her. I discovered their sexting one evening and my world was torn apart. She knew he was married and knew we were raising two boys and had lost two pregnancies. I love my husband, but he doesn’t understand I will never forget the betrayal.

A couple of months ago my husband and I were arguing and I went to his work to talk to him. When I went to his works front gate he had this slut tell me I was banned from coming there because he didn’t want to speak to me that day. I was hurt that he put me in a position of having the slut he emotionally cheated on me with degrade me like that. He doesn’t understand how he reopened the wounds. Am I wrong for not being able to get what they did out of my head?