The day after my mother’s birthday, in October of last year, my father, decided to begin his affair with this homewrecker: Tasha. After a few months, I come home to find a note on the living room floor in another woman’s handwriting, addressed to my father. The note said “I’m so sorry, I love you” and with my dad’s handwriting replying “I love you too”. After reading this, I was in a state of shock, wondering whether or not to show my mother. I heard crying towards their room and found my mom bawling her eyes out in their bathroom, holding other notes and hotel receipts. My mom did not want him to leave, so she begged me to act as if I was unaware of his affair. After a month or two, my dad told my brother and I that there were problems in my parent’s marriage and he needed to figure out what he wanted. He decided to move out. On my 18th birthday, in April, he confessed that he was leaving my mom.
That is when I told him I had known about the affair.
That is also when I decided to message Tasha via facebook to let her know that she had just ruined a 20 year long marriage and broken apart a family of 5. I had expected her reaction to be one of apologetic guilt, as she found out that my dad was still married, after he had originally told her that he was divorced with a “crazy ex-wife”. However, her response to me was that she was “not going to apologize for loving him” and that I “didn’t understand the relationship [they] have”. She continued her relationship with my father even after he vowed to try to work things out with my mom.
After believing that he had cut ties with bit*h Tasha, I received a picture message, on Mother’s Day, from a friend that was at the nearby gas station of Tasha and my dad together there. Later that evening my mom, brother, and I were told that Tasha was pregnant with my dad’s child.
Even after all the mess, my mother was willing to forgive my dad and take him back. Tasha would not back down, knowing that my parents were still trying to work things out. She did not care if she took him from a family of three kids including an autistic daughter who needed her father. As the oldest of my father’s children, Tasha has made me feel worthless to him, and my mom has been completely torn because of Tasha. Now my father has chosen to divorce my mother for that whore, who is almost half his age. 43; 25. She has never once apologized for the hell she has caused, instead she is proud to be a homewrecking slut.
