My husband and I have been together for 10 years. He began being very secretive last year….hiding his phone, taking it with him to the bathroom. I started looking at our phone records and he had been texting a number a lot more than he should be. I found out that he had been texting this number for several months. One month there were over 5000 texts between the 2. I followed him one morning when he told me he was leaving early to stop at a store. I found him at a hotel with this woman who he worked with who is also married. This went on for nearly a year right under my nose. She even tried to befriend me. He no longer works with her and says he has no contact with her. She is a manipulative person who doesn’t care about her family or anyone else’s.