Wendy is the village slut, and it turns out my husband is the village idiot! They work together and I had a bad feeling about her when he came home telling me how he felt sorry for her, giving me her sad single mother sob story. I trusted my husband 100%, he was always a man that tried to do the right thing. In my eyes, he was the greatest man I had ever known. Due to work stress, health issues, and some mental health issues, we had been in a slump. I never doubted we were still fine. Unbeknownst to me, she had been flirting and texting and moving in on him while he was down. I read the texts, and for months she texted flirty messages to him, but I never saw him respond in kind. But the more they talked, the more problems we had. She was telling him how she would not treat him as bad as I do, she would be so much better for him than me. Finally she lured him out to the lake after work to “talk” and came prepared with a condom! While he was out of town on a hunting trip, I found their calls and messages for the whole time. When I confronted him, he said he was upset about us and she was a friend he could talk to, but he promised he wouldn’t talk to her anymore.
I messaged her on fb and asked if something was going on between them, but of course she lied. I even found where she told people at work it was a slow day and my husband was going to take her out to show her about the wells. I’m sure you can guess what kind of “drilling” went on. She convinced him to get a prepaid phone so I couldn’t see how much they texted. (My husband isn’t smart enough to think of that, trust me.)Meanwhile, he and I started to get along great. We went to counseling, got him on meds that really seemed to make a difference. I was even paying 250 a month for his cialis he used to screw her! I tried really hard to believe him that she was just a friend. I beat myself up about not being more trusting. Then one day after he had been out hunting over night, he came home and crashed. She gave it a few hours and texted him that she missed him like crazy and loved him even more. Well he was asleep next to me, so naturally I looked at his phone. Looking back, I’m sure she did that on purpose to force his hand and start our divorce for him. You see, she was seeing another guy and needed to figure out which one was the better deal. I got to digging and found the pics she sent him of her tits, and several of her using a hot pink dildo, up close and personal. Im not sure how she could feel it, it looked tiny in comparison, I won’t post those pics, nobody should have to see something that nasty. She told him she couldnt wait forever for him, and a whole bunch of other things that will forever replay in my mind. After all the crap hit the fan, my husband did not choose to go to her. When I messaged her, asking how she slept at night messing with the lives of innocent kids, and not to contact him again, well the first chance she gets, she calls him. I told her again not to contact him and she proceed to tell me I needed to shut up and get over it! Bitch, you don’t just get over that kind of shit!!!!! She also said it was my fault for not keeping him happy. I’d like to know if she is so much better than me, why can’t she get her own man and keep him? Two divorces under her belt… I bet I know why! I’m really curious about who else at work has been “lured to the lake”, seeing as how later she got a bogus promotion from secretary to office manager, and her job hasn’t changed at all unless you count the raise she also got…..
As for my husband and I, the struggle is real. 11 years of love and happiness and small kids have swayed me to give him a second chance, on a tight leash! His punishment is living with himself after destroying the one person that loved him more than life. And as for Wendy, I’ll have to wait for karma, nothing I can do for revenge will ever be enough. She thinks she does no wrong.
