The Worst Gold Diggers Author – I have watched my beautiful friend fall apart. Her husband cheated on her throughout their marriage, lied to her pathologically and used manipulation and narcissist abuse tactics to control and isolate her, leaving her home alone while he smoked ice, partied and f****d around. De he then waged a smear campaign blaming her for everything. This man is a probable psychopath and narcissist, I want to tell women, if you meet this man, run the other way.