I found text messages my husband tried to hide, he had lost his job and his story did not add up. I learned Diana Heinig Patino was having sex with my husband when he sent home from deployment for an emergency because I had complications with my pregnancy. While I spent night and day in the NICU with our child, she was servicing him. Our baby eventually died because he made the decision to turn off life support, I trusted him and had no idea he was being unfaithful. He had Diana on his facebook right under my nose , she even attended the funeral. They continued for 6 years sexting and the occasional booty call when he was in town. Now she has the nerve to try to threaten me and my children.