So, if im just being honest I knew my husband was up to something he didn’t want me to know about, hell I’ve been married to this man for almost 15 yrs. We renewed our wedding vows on our 10 yr anniversary and I can honestly say we haven’t ever been as happy as we where during the 9, 10, 11th yrs of our marriage, those 3 yrs where by far the most amazing, happiest time of my life. Then suddenly things started changing, not too much at first, but enough that I said something on numerous occasions about the distance growing between us, it’d get better each time for a week or two then it reverted right back usual another step apart. I began to notice all kinds of little things that by themselves don’t mean anything but all together mean a whole hell of a lot. Never leaving his phone just laying around, coming home later and later from work, not trying to have sex with me,(that’s never been an issue ok) not answering my calls or responding to my txt for a clp of hrs here or there, all your classic infidelity signs. I got to the point that I just out right asked him, he denied it of corse but I knew better. I know him well enough to know he was lieing thru his teeth sad I also new my gut intuition has never led me that wrong before, I just knew. At first I cried to him begging him to just be honest, anything we could get past with honesty. He made me start to believe that I was loosing my mind that he’d never do such a thing I needed to stop all this. To the point that I almost walked out on him for good. But no I didn’t because I couldn’t walk out on him for something I couldn’t prove right, I mean we’ve got kids I can’t leave their dad for something I’m not 100% certain about, but I was so sure….I stayed me & my desperate for my man to love me stayed, and while I may have been desperate to have the man I remarried in Vegas back, I still put on my PI hat. I’d grown tired of asking, I mean where had that gotten me but miserable, so I started with the usual stuff. We have iPhones I knew he wouldn’t think I’d go tracking his location I’ve just not ever been a person to do that kind of stuff. But I located him at a clp of weird addresses.
