The Worst Gold Diggers Author – Maria Ruigrok puts on a good show but I assure you, she’s always hiding something. Not only did she step out on her marriage and my relationship with her, she apparently has no trouble stepping into someone else’s. Involved in a 5 year affair with a married man but swore up and down to me for the longest time that she was a victim in it and the receiver of lies that lead her on. I’m sure this is partly true but truth finally came when she told me she did get to a point where she knew she was the other woman and stayed anyways. The only victim in this story was not Maria but the mans wife who, as I’ve come to understand, ended up having a breakdown and was admitted to the hospital as a result of the trauma she’d been delivered from Maria and a man she didn’t belong with or have any right to. Maria has turned her back on apparently every promise she’s ever made including her marriage vows. After such heinous actions, it’s understandable that any promises made to me would have little meaning. Maria continued her previous relationship for the better part of a year into mine with her, secretly behind my back while so often questioning my loyalty. I understand this now because people that do such things and think that way, would suspect everyone else of operating at the same level she would. Texting her other boyfriends from my bed while being cared for post-surgery at my cottage and living a life of leisure. We had a long distance relationship for the first couple of years and that suited Maria just fine being away from me to carry on all of her clandestine activities that she would lie to me about and that I unfortunately uncovered much later, but thankfully before asking her to marry me (I’d already asked her parents permission. All I’m saying is this woman is a skilled actress, a very capable, quick-thinking liar who has no trouble stepping out on her own relationships or stepping into yours. She is NOT what she seems and her words often do NOT reflect the truth of any questions you may be asking.